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My Journey

I wanted to take a moment to chat with you!

Story time (who doesn’t love stories?!)!

Many people have asked me “How did you get from where you were to where you are now”? I’d like to share my quick version with you today.

When I started my journey of self-discovery to overcome all my doubts, fears & anxieties I began with books. Lots and lots of books. I figured somewhere in there would be the answer I was looking for. Just tell me what I need to do – there must be a manual to stop feeling this way? I just want to live, is that so much to ask? *Sigh*

So I bought tons of books and read through some of them (Buying stuff also made me feel better, eek!). When I realized I couldn’t find the answer in these books I went onto courses, lectures, shows, basically anywhere I could find the solution to make me feel better.

Little did I know I had it within me the whole time.

Don’t get me wrong I am totally 100% into personal development, but I was going about it all wrong. I thought that the personal development self-help materials would make me feel better about myself; give me the confidence to interact with others & be in the ‘cool’ crowd – finally!

After years and years of self-discovery, I finally found a spiritual guide that helped me connect with my inner self and live in the present moment. This created a huge change within me and I turned down a new path through of my journey. I still had a long way to go. I saw this guide for quite a while and made some progress in terms of feeling comfortable in my skin.

Then, the massive shift happened – I got on the phone with a coach. Yes, I got on the phone. Me, the introverted highly sensitive person who had super anxieties and fears about this. I’m not sure what prompted me (The Universe probably!) to go ahead with it because it felt so out of my comfort zone that I almost cancelled the call. But I did it and…. nothing bad happened. It was actually the opposite, I am now living!! So often we get stuck in our own fears that they actually block you from living your life. You get stuck in that dark cloud of doubt. I am here to tell you that you can get out of this dark soul draining cloud. You can step into your true authentic self and live a life beyond your dreams.

My whole journey was necessary to get me to where I am today, but I’ll be totally honest, if I could have done it faster – I would have done that.

In getting to where I am now, it is only natural to want to share my gifts and knowledge with the world. I love offering people support, accountability, tools, resources, encouragement and a path designed just for them to follow.

If any of this resonated with you I want to offer a free clarity session to see if we may be a good fit. Yes, you would need to invest into yourself but as I said before the investment is so worth it. The crazy dream life you get to live is so relieving, a weight lifted off of your shoulders and chest. If this is not calling to you yet, then keep at your journey, don’t give up – you can get there!

If you are interested in fast tracking to feel more secure within, more confident, get out of your own way and into the life you want to live then schedule a time with meWe can do it over the phone or even over messenger if you just can’t bring yourself to talk over the phone yet – totally okay. 🙂

I have many different packages at different prices so that we have options of how to work together.

Thanks so much for reading this far. I am truly honoured that you are here and that our paths have crossed.


You are amazing!!


Until Next time – Search Your Soul. Find Yourself. Live Authentically.


  1. Lehua

    Hey Tessa! I had a smile on my face reading this entire post, because it resonated with me SO MUCH! My journey has been so similar to what you’ve shared here… I’ve drowned myself in books and courses… and while they offer bits of insight, the most clarity I’ve experienced has been when I look within and when interacting with a mentor/coach… because he/she brings that clarity, that energy… out of me. So I can see it for myself.

    Your journey sounds so exciting, and I’m glad another fellow introvert is on this path too. Your message is empowering and I love the energy that radiates forth. Blessings to you and your journey! 🙂

  2. CherylAnn

    So true! As a former introvert (if we use the Myers Briggs definition, I now fall directly down the center of I and E) who is still highly sensitive, I totally get how hard it is to use the phone! I have recently completed a few months with a coach and I am very pleased with the results. The most important part of the work was the self-discovery and work that had to be done for each weekly meeting. While there are certain things I would not have realized or accomplished without my coach, I can also see that this weekly discipline of preparing will continue to propel me forward even without her.

  3. Jane

    Tessa, I totally resonated and understand where you are coming from. I too have suffered shyness, self-expression anxiety and low self confidence most of my life. But like you, found myself, the real me inside through spiritual coaching.

    Being connected to your authentic self really is the key for inner harmony, self-confidence/esteem, and loving and accepting yourself unconditionally.

    I found though, self improvement only works if you take action on the advice given, as otherwise it can make you feel even worse. Read, take action and connect inside with who really are, I found is the path to breaking out and getting past your comfort zone and actually living.

  4. Al Clunnie

    This really resonated with me. I just recently had a long talk with a coach who opened my eyes to some great new possibilities, and showed me things within myself that I hadn’t yet acknowledged. It has really helped me with my journey through life, and I would recommend it to anyone.

  5. Dee

    OMG! I too am very introverted and 100% into personal development, yet I find it terribly difficult to get on the phone and take advantage of all of the FREE discovery calls out there. The thought of speaking with a complete stranger and telling her my deepest and darkest secrets makes me break out into a cold sweat.

    Let alone actually making the call! I have cancelled so many meetings of this nature… maybe one day I will take the plunge 🙂


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